HoM = Wanda fucked up because of his kids
AoU = Pym fucked up because of his "kid"
Bendis Xmen > his Avengers, IMO.
But my problem with the Hank thing is this:
Mcduffie's Beyond, Slott's Mighty Avengers, Gage's Academy and a few other one shots and cool mini series have made him such a cool and fun character again that I'd hate for someone to sweep all that under the rug.
I really have grown to like Hank as a character a lot thanks to the last 6-7 years of story telling and don't want all that done due to a HoM moment.
Wanda still isn't fully fixed, we don't need another Pym breakdown. It's the Barry Allen/Wally West regression/recycling all over again.