Twigglet wrote:Is it worth actually going back out with a girl I've been out with before, even if it means I fuck over a lot of people in the process. Just because what I have with her is deeper.
Has anyone here done this?
Because try as I might, I'm really tempted to go walk to me exes help now, and I can't talk about it anywhere. I've tried to make this thread so many times this week just so I can talk about it.
No, I've never done that. I almost did. I dunno what stopped me.
A girl I once dated did exactly that, all the time with one of her exes. Being a youngish sort of fool at the time, I thought she had stopped while she was with me. And maybe she did...eh. Ancient history.
Anyway, yeah, she kept going back to this guy even when she was dating other people. Even when he was dating other people. Odd thing about it, their relationship didn't really work unless there was someone else in the picture, you know what I'm sayin'? It didn't feel "good" for them unless they felt they were breaking some sorta rule.
And hey that really flips some folks' switches, you know.
Moral of the story, they eventually got married. Had some kids. Well, had a kid and then got married. And it fucked over her career, which was, at one point in time, the most important thing to her. And so now, both of them are hitched to folks they know for a fact cannot remain faithful.
Make of that what you will.
Personally, I reckon since you're probably young, you may wanna do that which brings the most fun for you without necessarily hurting other people. Just make sure that it stays fun, you know? Don't get hooked up with something that starts ball-and-chainin' you. And I dunno, but it sounds like this girl is the kinda person that could easily cause you to slip into a destructive routine.
But if you can keep your perspective, and know when to recognize the writing on the wall, grab some ass and have some fun.