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[Arion]

So yesterday I had a date with a 20 year-old guy (I’m 27, mind you). And it was actually quite great, we went to an art gallery, so we didn’t spend a dime and we had fine red wine and Johnnie Walker Black Label. Then we grabbed something to eat and we talked a lot. It was great, do you think there is too much of an age difference between us?

[GLX]

So yesterday I had a date with a 20 year-old guy (I’m 27, mind you). And it was actually quite great, we went to an art gallery, so we didn’t spend a dime and we had fine red wine and Johnnie Walker Black Label. Then we grabbed something to eat and we talked a lot. It was great, do you think there is too much of an age difference between us?

Nah. Glad you had a good time.

[Greg]

So yesterday I had a date with a 20 year-old guy (I’m 27, mind you). And it was actually quite great, we went to an art gallery, so we didn’t spend a dime and we had fine red wine and Johnnie Walker Black Label. Then we grabbed something to eat and we talked a lot. It was great, do you think there is too much of an age difference between us?

No.

[Arion]

Nah. Glad you had a good time.

Yeah, it was all good.
So what's new with everyone?

[Arion]

Does anyone remember the 20 year old guy I had a date with?
Well, I took him for lunch today, and afterwards he suggested to get a room.

I have to say my performance was absolutely disappointing, has anyone else had problems with premature ejaculation ?

I honestly think this afternoon should be on the top ten of my most embarassing moments ever. I swear.

[Greg]

Does anyone remember the 20 year old guy I had a date with?
Well, I took him for lunch today, and afterwards he suggested to get a room.

I have to say my performance was absolutely disappointing, has anyone else had problems with premature ejaculation ?

I honestly think this afternoon should be on the top ten of my most embarassing moments ever. I swear.

I have never experienced that, to be honest. My issue used to be delayed ejaculation. I would go for hours and never release and my partners always felt that they were doing something wrong, when they weren't. Past few months to a year I figured out how to finally get myself to orgasm with someone else, but it required me having to stop jacking off and reduce my porn watch as I was getting desensitized.

Arion, was this your first time? What exactly did you do?

I do know one thing, when you're messing around, try to relax and think of something else that distracts you from thinking about ejaculating. When things are sorta getting heavy and you think you're close, stop and do something else, foreplay, kiss, finger, jack him off, anything to allow you a small break before you release and then return back to what you were doing.

You can also practice edging. When you're by yourself masturbating, stop when you feel you're near. When you feel the feeling to ejaculate has subsided, jack off again and keep stopping every time you feel near then return. This can build the feeling of knowing when to start and start again when you're with someone.

[GLX]

Does anyone remember the 20 year old guy I had a date with?
Well, I took him for lunch today, and afterwards he suggested to get a room.

I have to say my performance was absolutely disappointing, has anyone else had problems with premature ejaculation ?

I honestly think this afternoon should be on the top ten of my most embarassing moments ever. I swear.

[Arion]

I have never experienced that, to be honest. My issue used to be delayed ejaculation. I would go for hours and never release and my partners always felt that they were doing something wrong, when they weren't. Past few months to a year I figured out how to finally get myself to orgasm with someone else, but it required me having to stop jacking off and reduce my porn watch as I was getting desensitized.

Arion, was this your first time? What exactly did you do?

I do know one thing, when you're messing around, try to relax and think of something else that distracts you from thinking about ejaculating. When things are sorta getting heavy and you think you're close, stop and do something else, foreplay, kiss, finger, jack him off, anything to allow you a small break before you release and then return back to what you were doing.

You can also practice edging. When you're by yourself masturbating, stop when you feel you're near. When you feel the feeling to ejaculate has subsided, jack off again and keep stopping every time you feel near then return. This can build the feeling of knowing when to start and start again when you're with someone.

Well, I had already done it with the other guy I was dating in November, December (so this new guy is someone new). But somehow this situation felt completely different, and I don't know why I got terribly nervous, my hands were even shaking a bit, and when I was undressing him I couldn't even unbotton his shirt. I felt clumsy from the beginning. At least I did give him a rather successful prostatic massage with my fingers, but I still felt so ashamed for messing up like that. I guess I was just really nervous, and I don't know why.

[Greg]

So were you topping? Getting a BJ? What?

[ThatGuyRoman]

You know when you really have to pee, but you hold it? You can train the muscles that you use there to help you out when you don't want to pop too soon.


Also, a solid tug of the balls works for some... I wouldn't recommend it, unless you are into that sort of thing.

[Arion]

So were you topping? Getting a BJ? What?

I was topping. He was quite understanding, though. But I still feel so embarassed every time I remember how I blew this up. It was our first time together, but hopefully there will be a second one and I'll use Black Roman's advice (the control thing, not the tug to the balls).

[ThatGuyRoman]

Whoever was operating the camera in Avengers certainly was a fan of Chris Evans' butt, because it seemed like if there was a scene where you could get his ass into frame, it was going to be in frame.

Not that I'm complaining in the least, if you can do it for Black Widow, you can do it for Captain America.

[ThatGuyRoman]

I was topping. He was quite understanding, though. But I still feel so embarassed every time I remember how I blew this up. It was our first time together, but hopefully there will be a second one and I'll use Black Roman's advice (the control thing, not the tug to the balls).

Most importantly, you just gotta let it go. Anxiety is the enemy of good sex. Relax a little, guy. If someone was willing to have sex with you once, someone will be willing to do it again. Just figure out what works for helping you feel relaxed and open and then focus on the both of you having a good time.

[Greg]

I was topping. He was quite understanding, though. But I still feel so embarassed every time I remember how I blew this up. It was our first time together, but hopefully there will be a second one and I'll use Black Roman's advice (the control thing, not the tug to the balls).

What Roman is suggesting is called the kegel exercise. You can practice it one your own, etc. Look it up.

[ThatGuyRoman]

Only just realized that Arion called me Black Roman again.



No one here gets that reference, Ari.