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Ethical Question from work today.

Postby kingbeavis » Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:30 pm

I was at work today talking about how I like to work out at lunch. My employer gets big discounts for memberships at a couple of workout facilities close by, one is the YMCA and the other is at a hotel. The woman sitting across from me says she won't go to the YMCA because there are too many faggots. This is a big company with 1000s of employees, corporate atmosphere and she should know that you cannot speak that way at work.

This woman is married with three kids, and her husband is a computer programmer that has been unemployed for about 18 months after getting laid off. My Dad is in the same position so I know how tough it is to get a computer programming job right now.

Do I report the woman for using that language knowing that she will get fired, or let it slide because I know the woman being unemployed would hurt her kids just as much as her and they had nothing to do with it?

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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby S.F. Jude Terror » Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:34 pm

Eh. Some people are ignorant, why should it bother you? Do you think this woman is going to go out and hurt gay people because of her beliefs? Or is it more likely she'll live a sad and miserable life offended by the sexual activities of people who have nothing to do with her? I would just ignore it.
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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby kingbeavis » Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:45 pm

S.F. Jude Terror wrote:Eh. Some people are ignorant, why should it bother you? Do you think this woman is going to go out and hurt gay people because of her beliefs? Or is it more likely she'll live a sad and miserable life offended by the sexual activities of people who have nothing to do with her? I would just ignore it.


Also, I want her job....

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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby LobsterJ » Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:50 pm

at my job a few weeks ago some chick started telling me she was racist and going off about blacks, asians, etc etc. i told her she really shouldnt say shit like that because most people would get her fired. she seemed honestly perplexed by this.

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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby GOSD » Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:52 pm

I like her already.

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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby PDH » Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:14 pm

I wouldn't report her but I would privately give her a piece of my mind.

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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby Strict31 » Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:24 pm

kingbeavis wrote:
Also, I want her job....


Then she is your enemy. Your only recourse is to defeat her in single combat, and seize her power by devouring her heart. All of her land and titles will now fall to you by rite of succession, and you will wear your crown upon a troubled brow.

Spare no sympathy for her mate nor her offspring; in fact, it is best to crush them as well. You do not want her sons growing up to seek vengeance upon you for taking her...uh...job. Yes.

What were we talking about, again...?
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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby S.F. Jude Terror » Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:39 pm

kingbeavis wrote:
Also, I want her job....


In that case, report her. When she's leaving the office in tears after being fired, cut a heel promo.
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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby bkthomson » Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:44 pm

Ignore it the first time, but if it comes up again then take it up with HR. Do not say anything to her, do not engage in a conversation of any type since it can come back against you. More likely HR will either do nothing but track the incident or maybe give her a verbal warning.
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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby GHERU » Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:53 pm

fuck that
you want her job and some non-douchebag unemployed person wants yours
exploit her weakness and get her kicked to the curb
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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby bkthomson » Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:55 pm

GHERU wrote:fuck that
you want her job and some non-douchebag unemployed person wants yours
exploit her weakness and get her kicked to the curb


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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby Max Blyss » Thu Mar 22, 2012 10:09 pm

Suggest that she do what I do: Take all her aggressive / hateful feelings toward various groups, and focus them on the group that is most deserving of scorn - The French!
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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby pastajoe » Thu Mar 22, 2012 10:25 pm

Leave it alone, it wasn't directed at you and she wasn't conducting company business, which in either case I would say report it. Otherwise she's entitled to her opinion, regardless of whether you agree with it. People like this usually slip up on their own, But if you were to speak up now you'll be labeled as a whiny squealer.

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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby Benderbrau » Thu Mar 22, 2012 10:42 pm

kingbeavis wrote:I was at work today talking about how I like to work out at lunch. My employer gets big discounts for memberships at a couple of workout facilities close by, one is the YMCA and the other is at a hotel. The woman sitting across from me says she won't go to the YMCA because there are too many faggots. This is a big company with 1000s of employees, corporate atmosphere and she should know that you cannot speak that way at work.

This woman is married with three kids, and her husband is a computer programmer that has been unemployed for about 18 months after getting laid off. My Dad is in the same position so I know how tough it is to get a computer programming job right now.

Do I report the woman for using that language knowing that she will get fired, or let it slide because I know the woman being unemployed would hurt her kids just as much as her and they had nothing to do with it?

Let it slide.. Some people are just fucking ignorant and unless she's a subordinate it's not your job to police her. So unless it offends you personally forget about it.
kingbeavis wrote:Also, I want her job....

Throw that bigoted bitch under the bus and claim what is rightfully yours.
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Re: Ethical Question from work today.

Postby Herald » Thu Mar 22, 2012 11:19 pm

As long as nobody else was around to be offended, and she doesn't make a habit out of it, I'd let her off the hook.

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