Dragavon wrote:I think her last boyfriend cheated on her. That's why she has the attitude that if I am going to do something I should tell her. She's more upset by the idea that I would lie to her (which I wouldn't) than by me being with another woman.
Reality is, I'm probably not going to do anything. Definitely no more one night stands. If I find a "fuck buddy" that would be okay but I'm not going to go out to bars every night.
That's a new wrinkle. If she's telling you to do it because she's afraid you're going to do it anyways that's not someone with an open attitude, that's someone with trust issues. In that case fucking random chicks would only validate her negative opinions of men and lump you in with them.
It also stands in conflict with her earlier glib attitude of "go practice so I can reap the rewards" comment.
Remember that tradition you mentioned earlier about her going from her father's house to yours? you might went to squeeze in a stop off at the marriage councilor's office along the way 'cause I don't think she knows what she wants.
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