Doc Jon wrote:I couldn't do it. I was commited to wife before we were married. Even if she told me it was ok, I wouldn't have. Just me.
Not reading through the whole thread but: this.
I don't get the whole "sow your wild oats" thing. You either are committed to a relationship or you aren't. If you aren't, then you shouldn't be in a relationship.
I know it's a little different in Dragavon's case because it's an arranged situation but still. Commitment or no commitment. No running around, getting a girlfriend and then questioning whether you should even BE with your wife. Trouble that way lies.