Arion wrote:Does anyone remember the 20 year old guy I had a date with?
Well, I took him for lunch today, and afterwards he suggested to get a room.
I have to say my performance was absolutely disappointing, has anyone else had problems with premature ejaculation ?
I honestly think this afternoon should be on the top ten of my most embarassing moments ever. I swear.
I have never experienced that, to be honest. My issue used to be delayed ejaculation. I would go for hours and never release and my partners always felt that they were doing something wrong, when they weren't. Past few months to a year I figured out how to finally get myself to orgasm with someone else, but it required me having to stop jacking off and reduce my porn watch as I was getting desensitized.
Arion, was this your first time? What exactly did you do?
I do know one thing, when you're messing around, try to relax and think of something else that distracts you from thinking about ejaculating. When things are sorta getting heavy and you think you're close, stop and do something else, foreplay, kiss, finger, jack him off, anything to allow you a small break before you release and then return back to what you were doing.
You can also practice edging. When you're by yourself masturbating, stop when you feel you're near. When you feel the feeling to ejaculate has subsided, jack off again and keep stopping every time you feel near then return. This can build the feeling of knowing when to start and start again when you're with someone.
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Greg, thank you for your insights.Benderbrau:
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