toolverine wrote:So, I've always experienced feast or famine when it comes to women. My dry spells are obscenely long and then I have these periods where more than one woman are actively pursuing me in one way or another. I just got out of a bizarre love quadrangle situation where I had a huge fight with the girl I was most interested and closest to, dropped the Romanian girl I'd been pursuing for the longest time in recent history, and dated a girl I hardly knew, only to do something I thought I'd never cop to-- cheating. Now, people have varying morals when it comes to relationships where marriage is not involved, but I felt terrible about the whole thing.
Now, I'm in a similar situation. The Romanian girl and I are seeing each other as mutual exclusives as of last night. The girl I cheated with... tried to jump me before the mutual exclusivity conversation took place. I didn't go for it. Also, an ex girlfriend has been telling me stuff like she'd rather make out with me than study for the bar.
Anyway, anyone else experience the feast or famine effect.? (In b4 Carrie calls me a man whore)
Back before I got hitched, I was dating someone and I went out early to a local convenience store, struck up a convo with a girl who was swooning over me in 2 minutes flat. Long story short, I told her I was taken. I think there's a hormone or something secreted when people are already having sex or happy or something . Look it up!