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by **Dragavon** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:16 pm

chap22 wrote:what exactly does "have you met her before" depend on? since you answered yes to making out and sex, i would normally assume the answer to the "have you met" question would be yes too.

Some lawyer you are. Opposing counsel did not specify the question "Have you met before" as to whether it was "Have I ever met her in person?" or "Did I meet her before I married her?"

by **SuperginraiX** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:18 pm

Doc Jon wrote:I couldn't do it. I was commited to wife before we were married. Even if she told me it was ok, I wouldn't have. Just me.

Not reading through the whole thread but: this.

I don't get the whole "sow your wild oats" thing. You either are committed to a relationship or you aren't. If you aren't, then you shouldn't be in a relationship.

I know it's a little different in Dragavon's case because it's an arranged situation but still. Commitment or no commitment. No running around, getting a girlfriend and then questioning whether you should even BE with your wife. Trouble that way lies.

by **Dragavon** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:25 pm

SuperginraiX wrote:Not reading through the whole thread but: this.

I don't get the whole "sow your wild oats" thing. You either are committed to a relationship or you aren't. If you aren't, then you shouldn't be in a relationship.

I know it's a little different in Dragavon's case because it's an arranged situation but still. Commitment or no commitment. No running around, getting a girlfriend and then questioning whether you should even BE with your wife. Trouble that way lies.

I'm not questioning whether I should be with my wife. We're married and it's till death do us part. The question seems to be since we have this enforced absence of about eight to twelve months till she can enter the country legally, she wants me to find some female and make her a sex friend.

by **SuperginraiX** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:29 pm

Benderbrau wrote:I never understood the expression "happily married".

What does that mean? Are you happy with each other all day, every day for ever and ever and ever? Of course not. When I see it used I think it sounds silly - like someone saying "where I live it's sunny all the time". Really? Even at night? That's amazing!

Am I happy in my marriage right now? Yes. Was I happy last Saturday when she left the windows open and rain poured in the house? No, not really.

Bender even ball-busts his wife. :lol:

"Happily married" generally means that you are happy that you are married to the person to whom you are married. And maybe that marriage is pretty awesome. It in no way should imply that every waking moment is the greatest thing ever. We all have marital issues but you work through those and stay happily married. Stop overthinking things.

by **S.F. Jude Terror** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:30 pm

SuperginraiX wrote:Bender even ball-busts his wife.

"Happily married" generally means that you are happy that you are married to the person to whom you are married. And maybe that marriage is pretty awesome. It in no way should imply that every waking moment is the greatest thing ever. We all have marital issues but you work through those and stay happily married. Stop overthinking things.

Bender: Does not compute.

by **SuperginraiX** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:32 pm

Dragavon wrote:I'm not questioning whether I should be with my wife. We're married and it's till death do us part. The question seems to be since we have this enforced absence of about eight to twelve months till she can enter the country legally, she wants me to find some female and make her a sex friend.

I get that and I still think it's a bad idea. I mean, what happens if my wife gets a job that keeps her away from home for extended periods of time? What if she needs to be overseas to handle some family problem or another? Does that give me permission to sleep around? "You weren't around" isn't usually a good reason to cheat on your wife no matter the time frame involved.

Again, IMO YMMV

by **sdsichero** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:40 pm

Dragavon wrote:but I definitely care for her and want her to be happy.

Then why are you marrying her?

by **sdsichero** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:41 pm

SuperginraiX wrote:Not reading through the whole thread but: this.

I don't get the whole "sow your wild oats" thing. You either are committed to a relationship or you aren't. If you aren't, then you shouldn't be in a relationship.

I know it's a little different in Dragavon's case because it's an arranged situation but still. Commitment or no commitment. No running around, getting a girlfriend and then questioning whether you should even BE with your wife. Trouble that way lies.

And this is coming from a Mormon with many wives.

by **Benderbrau** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:43 pm

SuperginraiX wrote:I get that and I still think it's a bad idea. I mean, what happens if my wife gets a job that keeps her away from home for extended periods of time? What if she needs to be overseas to handle some family problem or another? Does that give me permission to sleep around? "You weren't around" isn't usually a good reason to cheat on your wife no matter the time frame involved.

Again, IMO YMMV

Except we're not talking about your wife are we?

by **Benderbrau** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:44 pm

There's a lot of projecting going on in this thread.

by **Dragavon** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:46 pm

sdsichero wrote:
Then why are you marrying her?

I already married her. Now despite that, I want her to be happy.

by **SuperginraiX** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:47 pm

Benderbrau wrote:Except we're not talking about your wife are we?

Again, IMO YMMV

by **sdsichero** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:48 pm

Dragavon wrote:I already married her. Now despite that, I want her to be happy.

Should have sent her to me then.

:smt005

Sorry even I couldn't keep a straight face for that one.

by **Dragavon** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:54 pm

sdsichero wrote:
Should have sent her to me then.

Sorry even I couldn't keep a straight face for that one.

Well as happy as I can make her. :lol:

by **bkthomson** » Wed Apr 11, 2012 5:19 pm

SuperginraiX wrote:Bender even ball-busts his wife.

"Happily married" generally means that you are happy that you are married to the person to whom you are married. And maybe that marriage is pretty awesome. It in no way should imply that every waking moment is the greatest thing ever. We all have marital issues but you work through those and stay happily married. Stop overthinking things.

I still do not think that Bender's Wife lets him talk.