Never got the argument that you shouldn't fight for something you want? I know you and I know you don't like confrontation so I get why you feel that way.
Me? I fight for what I want, chalking it up to "just the past" is just a convenient reason to not fight. I don't fight for every single part of my past to stay the same, but if something was better and I can learn from history and create something in the future that is as good (even if it is not the same) then that is something I think is worth fighting, arguing for, etc. And being that this is a community on the internet, all I can do is talk about it and see if others are interested in the same thing.
I'm not talking about your post. I'm talking about original. And no, I never said to give in on anything, to not fight, or. Adapt means a modification according to changing circumstances. If it's changing, it's behooves to adapt -modify- to the environment, ei favorite person to talk with left, find someone new to shoot the shit. Standing for something that you believe in doesn't mean you're not adapting, that is actually being a part of the forum and being interactive - but if you make a post, like the original, that states the lack of wanting to adapt by attacking others and ignoring/treat the rest who post as nobodies, then the person has the options I mentioned. Why stay somewhere that gives you nothing you (person in general) want? Obviously if you (meaning the original poster or a person in general - not you sweetie) have invested emotions into the place, that is harder to do, but if the people/topics you (" repeat above) were invested with are no longer around, either change to what's existing or leave. That is all I was getting at. At no point did I say that one couldn't fight for what they want. Hell I know no one else here cares crap about bellydance, but I still talk about it in hopes that someone might know something about it. I'm not sure what you are talking about with Talk At because I was never part of it, but I know because I have interest in you as a friend I would try to join in what you felt the feel of what you had before if that's apart of you. I do want all of you sweetie- the stubborn, the sweet, and the sexy.