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S.F. Jude Terror wrote:
I don't know man, how many times can I say it? Multiple people, including someone who signed up on this site and posted in the other thread, have made clear that there is a "whispernet" of women who inform each other about misconduct and warn each other but that no one speaks out about and people stay silent because they're afraid to upset the status quo. Fowler says that it needs to stop being women saying this stuff to each other in private and it needs to start being men letting other men know their behavior is not okay.
You want every woman who's ever been harassed to come out in the next 24 hours and name names? I think it's a gradual change.
I know you don't know. I wasn't really asking directly. It was mostly rhetorical.
It's just like repeating there's a problem doesn't help if we don't know what it is. I hope that someone gets to the bottom of it and figures it out. Where there's smoke, there's usually fire. I just want to see the fire before I decide it's there.